7 Tips Anti-fighting with bestfriend when you love the same crush

Love and friendship are the two colors in life. Having both makes life feel more complete. Without them you may still be alive, but feeling those lost moments will make you sad!

It will be confusing if you are faced with a condition where you have to choose between your love or your best friend. Not because your boyfriend/girlfriend asks you to stay away from your best friend or your best friend to ask you to stay away from your girl/boyfriend, but when you and your friends have a crush on the same guy.

On the one hand you will want to fight for your love, but on the other hand you do not want to spoil the friendship that has been established, right?

When in such conditions, which one would you choose to fight for?

It's not an easy decision to take, but at least you're taking the right steps to keep the relationship established, staying awake.

1. While observing, keep the secret.

You need to make absolutely sure whether your best friend really fancies a guy the same as you, with the same intent as you, or not.

2. Being as normal.

It means, keep it normal either with your best friend or the same guy. Do not let anything be changed, or they will notice it and the situation is more unpleasant.

3. Find out guys have an interest in either of you or not

Who knows, he to you or your best friend wrote or even have another crush. It's not funny if you and your friends even make a fuss of your own.

4. If that guy does not have a crush on you, what is it for?

If he does not have a crush on you or your best friend, then yes. Think of the wind then.

5. If it turns out he has a crush on one of you, make peace with reality

That is, if he turns out to have a crush on your best friend, you should be able to accept. Even if he has a crush on you and of course it will affect your friend's attitude towards you, you also have to be ready.

6. Be honest with your best friend

Whatever happens, being honest with your friends about your feelings will always be the best option.

7. Dare to take a decision.

There must be some hurt, someone must sacrifice. But it would be better than continuing to be in the crossroads, not sure where to go, and letting all get hurt for longer. Instead, dare to take a decision and live the decision with a commitment. A good friend must have a lot of understanding. :)

Bintang.com Fitri Andiani

Published: 13/11/2017 14:27